I have 7 Switch games still sat in their plastic wrap and I pre-ordered Diablo II Resurrected; its been a year and I've not even booted that up once. I have hundreds of Steam and Epic free games I have never played and an Xbox One X sat in the box that's never been unpacked since I moved house three years ago.
This is why I'm not buying a PS5 even though I want one

Oh and for the reasons you stated above, I have zero interest in gaming online with others now and would much rather enjoy solo games I can play without worrying about interruptions or keeping to a schedule with others. The last time I did any serious online gaming was with some old work colleages on the GTA5 heists and a bit of Quake Champions to see how rusty I was, but that was when I only had one infant. I'm looking forward to the days I get my evenings back or the kids are old enough to game with!