ok... so Ive got the bug a bit now....
upped my mym timings a bit (from ~800 to ~1600mhz)
got this from super pie
these are my (badly edited together for one long list) bios settings...
ram is suposed to run 1600mhz @ 9-9-9-9-24 @ 1.8v... whatever that means...
everything running perfect, stress testing for hours no problems :-)