wait a min.... you had the problems before the upgrade ? I thought they were new after the upgrade
that points away from the windows fault (a bit anyway)
from your mempry tests Id say it is a memory issue.
stick A is ok in slot 1 and 2, CTD in slot 3
stick B is ok in slot 3
A in 2, B in 3, BSOD
you need to test it a bit more, try leaving sick B in slot 3 for a few days, make sure its deffo. ok
try the sticks in slots 1 and 2
dual channel makes naff all real difference tbh.
either youve got an iffy stick of ram, or slot 3 is iffy.
what if you go back to your old ram ?
if it still does it then, then its the slot.