Thanks
Heres what I did:
I made a new custom recipient; user@gmail.com. Open OOA, selected Im OOA and I made a rule to forward all msgs to the custom recipient.
I know you can do it server-side but my account doesnt have permission to set that up - probably cos the exhange server is flaky as feck and my boss dont want me messing with it. Also I was reading about mail loops so I didnt wanna go there anyway.
Anyhow, it aint a biggy cos the dude can just vpn in ..I need closure I guess