it makes me laugh how much guys worry about how they come across as to women. im not speaking for all women but when i was single i didnt care what men saw me as. if i got laid, great, if i didnt then hey, i had a new friend. you cant lose when you think of it that way.
it bothers us when were not getting laid
trouble is a woman can get laid whenever she wants. trust me theres very few guys who would say no if you approach them. if you went for 3 random guys i bet one would be game!
i have found from personal experience its hard to be friends with a woman you fancy. alough it is a tad easier when youve slept with them.
i have slept with all my close female friends, and not been out with any of them :? it just happens sometimes, and we carry on as usual next time we see each other :-)