well, its hard to decide when you are ready for a life long commitment, if you dont feel comfortable with it, then you cant really force a person into the situation. its better now than when you have kids/morgage. who knows you could find someone better suited to you, you never know untill you go and find out.

yes but my point is its a bit f***ing late to get scared of commitment now. if he didnt want this he could have told me years ago.

there is a big difference between seeing someone, an then getting married. big big big big difference.

Quote from: Cornholioi have the monday blues too. madrocker has gone to the pub without me because apparently we "spend too much time together and it would be healthy if we did things separately now and then". i want to cry.

You do sound a bit possessive, from the many "desperate" sounding posts.  Doesnt he frequent these forums too?!?  

Rather than spend loads of time bitching about him on here, why not start going out with the girls a bit more often and get some interests.  Or better still talk to him!!

Quote from: Cornholioi have the monday blues too. madrocker has gone to the pub without me because apparently we "spend too much time together and it would be healthy if we did things separately now and then". i want to cry.

You do sound a bit possessive, from the many "desperate" sounding posts.  Doesnt he frequent these forums too?!?  

Rather than spend loads of time bitching about him on here, why not start going out with the girls a bit more often and get some interests.  Or better still talk to him!!

Bizarre, added my reply in twice?!?

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Quote from: Cornholiowhat gets me is that he comes in from work and goes straight onto the computer and i dont see him then til we go to bed unless i go and talk to him. we might be under the same roof but we hardly spend any time actually together.

thats exactly the behaviour that saw me lose my ex 9 or 10 months ago. I still regret it now.

If hes anything like I was back then, hes probably more scared of losing you that hell care to admit. However what hes not realising is that you guys used to have fun together but youve forgotten how to do that. if you two can remember how to have fun, he wont associate fun as drinking with his single mates.

this isnt some self righteous post telling you how to fix it, if Id have had the answers I wouldnt have lost the girl i wanted to marry. I just hope he gives it chance to work and tries to fix it with you before giving it up and regretting it.

Matt

Quote from: Cornholioi have the monday blues too. madrocker has gone to the pub without me because apparently we "spend too much time together and it would be healthy if we did things separately now and then". i want to cry.

Oi. this is my self-pity thread, get your own Srlsy, you should be having this chat with Mr. Rocker rather than with the whole internet.

well, im officially single. im sorry for stealing your thunder sdp!! im feeling pretty bad right now but ill be fine soon.

All the best Cornholio, hope you feel ok soon!

Quote from: Cornholiowell, im officially single. im sorry for stealing your thunder sdp!! im feeling pretty bad right now but ill be fine soon.

If you are still living in the same house stop making his meals for him, he can get those himself. Or starve.

If you are in a partnership then it takes both to make it a success, one person cant slog it out on their own and you are better off out of it.

And remember that there are still people who appreciate your presence here

i wont be staying here with him. im moving into my grandmas for a couple of weeks then im going up to scotland to my mums for a week to clear my head. so i might not be online for a little while.

Well shes gone now, feel realy sh*tty, very worryed about her.
Just one of them bloody hard decisions that has to be made.

if it aint right it aint right, cant keep a relationship going just because you dont want to upset people