nope, I want you to stop whining !
and nope again, Im not tight at all, theres just some things I need to be there for to organise myself
Skinflint and perfectionist. Find someone who has half a brain, that you can trust, and get them to do fourty hours of what you do.
LoL female pecking order, I think u should try to say NO !!!
especially in the matter of malpractice, say NO and if she says WHAT ? ask her to take it to the boss.
I really dont like confrontation though, I sort of bottle things up for weeks and weeks and then eventually I cant hold it in any longer and I just explode, Im terrified its going to happen very soon thats why I need help and quickly!
Occasionally confrontation is required, or you end up being walked over. Keep a diary, also keep a list of things you need to do, bring it out every time she asks you to do something you shouldnt and add it to the end. Tell her that you will get onto it as soon as you have done everything else. If she complains then tell her you are working as fast as possible, if she wants you to do something else then she should do some other work herself.
Get them to give you a contract stating what you should be doing. If shes being insulting or abusive then try using a recorder and play it back to the boss. Keep recordings on your home computer too.