what gets me is that he comes in from work and goes straight onto the computer and i dont see him then til we go to bed unless i go and talk to him. we might be under the same roof but we hardly spend any time actually together.
thats exactly the behaviour that saw me lose my ex 9 or 10 months ago. I still regret it now.
If hes anything like I was back then, hes probably more scared of losing you that hell care to admit. However what hes not realising is that you guys used to have fun together but youve forgotten how to do that. if you two can remember how to have fun, he wont associate fun as drinking with his single mates.
this isnt some self righteous post telling you how to fix it, if Id have had the answers I wouldnt have lost the girl i wanted to marry. I just hope he gives it chance to work and tries to fix it with you before giving it up and regretting it.
Matt