what gets me is that he comes in from work and goes straight onto the computer and i dont see him then til we go to bed unless i go and talk to him. we might be under the same roof but we hardly spend any time actually together.
thats quite similar to how it went for me and my gf.
we both get in from work together, i would go straight on the pc and she would make tea.
Other than eating together and popping downstairs to see her every now and again, i wouldnt see her till we went to bed.
now weve started going for walks after tea or going to the park with a ball or somthing or even just a random drive, also I use the laptop now, so even tho im still on the pc im on the sofa next to her.
you do need time to yourself tho, i go to football and pub with mates and she goes swimming with her sis and fat fighters with some mates.