Hahaha. Hopefully you will enjoy it. I think in the scheme of things it tackles a pretty difficult issue in such a way as to make it readable by many people, Im even tempted to suggest my dad read it, and he is, tbh, an idiot.
Your expanded space travel idea reminded me of the futurama ships drive, it doesnt move, it moves the universe around it. If no time passes outside the bubble, what happens if you get 2 ships in different bubbles?
Or what happens if they cross paths... mwhaha
A forever war film would be pretty cool, though I think itll end up diverging quite a lot from the book. I mean, the combat aspects are pretty sparse, most of the book is taken up with describing earth in the different time periods, the feelings of isolation the soldier experiences, and the camadarie (sp?) between the soldiers that pretty much know that they are either going to die, or never see the world they knew again...
Incidentally, I am basically randomly choosing books from the SF Masterworks collection, which Forever War is part of. I decided in the end to sacrifice the cover and numbering, and get this non-collection omnibus as it was better value. However, I thoroughly recommend the collection to anyone that was like me, who enjoys Sci-fi but never knows what to read. Since starting, Ive read half a dozen books in the collection, and been introduced to Philip K. Dick (It seems a large chunk of the collection is his work), and read things like I Am legend, Ringworld and Roadside Picnic, all things that have since made their way into popular culture in one way or another