An 18-55mm lens is a zoom, a 300mm is a telescopic, 200-1400mm is a zoom but is also a telescopic. Zoom means it covers a range of focal lengths, telescopic means it has a longer focal length than a normal one.
Next, according to theory, should be a 55-200mm zoom, which will give you an adequate zoom capability. You might want to stretch that to a 55-300mm to give a bit extra length though.
Another option that you should get is an X2 lens. Cheaper than a telephoto it will double the focal length of any lens you attach to it, thus your standard 18-55mm would become a 36-110mm but you would go down an f-stop too.
The X2 with a 55-300mm zoom would give you most of what you want for wildlife and photographing planes and such.
For most I would advise against going wide angle unless you really need it. Usually you can step back and it saves you some dosh not having one. This would be different for a professional who would consider it an investment and for a specific purpose.
For macro see what your camera is capable of with the present lens, you might be pleasantly surprised. IF not get a cheap lens and try going reverse
Oh and you dont get if you dont ask. Its worth being grumpy about it too