I hot GF who wants sex at least 5 times a day would do me.

OMG did I just read a post made by egg that had genuinely helpfull and good advice.

Seconded - Egg WTF???

Its good advice though - Im a firm believer that the whole women saying they want sensitive, caring, sharing blah blah is all horse sh*t. I know it is. Youre like that - you bore them - I lost my first g/f that way. Dunno what it is but confidence just seems to drive them nuts - I think its why good women often keep going back to complete twats. I know my missus openly admits she finds me far more attractive when Im being confident and assertive (and no I dont just mean in the bedroom lol!!)

On another note - can I please get some comments on how awesome that mic stand is???   -)

phobia (it probably isnt a phobia, more of a hangup), of being touched.

This is a great line to use on a girl, seriously! Next time you see her go straight up, big smile, and give her a hug and say youre working on it

Congrats man. Youre a top bloke and deserve a good girl in your life. But you do need to jump into bed with her next time, if you say no and the offer is there she could think you dont like her or that your toast is buttered on the other side.

I am just a tad concerned that the reason she likes me is that I am indeed a kind and caring person and if her last relationship ended due to a cheating BF, sometime down the line shell realise that sure Im safe, but boring.

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My favourite piece of advice here... fake it til you make it

Plus the affectionate attentions of a good woman will do your confidence no end of good, trust me.

go get your balls wet... The more time you spend with her & not even have a fumble, the more difficult it will get.
There isnt a right moment, only the opportunity of there being a right moment... if you dont act on that opportunity, then
the moment will pass. Alcohol may help btw... but not to much!!!

^^^

this tbh...

Also youll find that plenty of girls wont put out on a first date anyway if theyre interested in a relationship as they dont want to appear slutty - so even if you had jumped into bed with her you wouldnt have necessarily nailed her that evening.

Well another Friday night has been and gone...what can I say things are never easy for me ><

Went and saw Megamind, then back to hers, we watched Freaked, and then put on Super Troopers. At some point fairly on the smooching started and before I know it were on the bed. Excellent. The complication now is the fact that the kissing lasted from about 1am till nearly 4am, getting more hardcore, by which time when things were about to proceed to the natural conclusion of the evening, for want of a better term the mind was willing and the body wasnt. Shes thinking it was maybe for the best anyway given that weve gone from being cuddling to a near home run I guess in 3 hours, and Im just left concerned there are larger issues at play now! I just need to remind myself for the 2.5 hours before "the end" there wasnt an issue.  

At any rate last night was awwwwwwwwwwwesome

Sounds great and it also sounds like shes very understanding zpyder, I think after that much anticipation it can probably be quite easy to hit a sudden roadblock when it comes to the big push, I cant see it happening again but if it does a couple of drinks beforehand would limber you up (not a lot, or youll have no chance though  -) )

Are we talking about cockfade here?